I enjoy meeting new and existing clients and fulfilling fantasies no matter how bizarre they may be. You can be sure that I have pretty much seen and heard it all, so nothing shocks me. In order to make the experience as best as possible for both Mistress and client – I’ve set out some guidelines, so you understand what is to be expected. Please review these guidelines carefully so that you will be prepared and ready for our session.

The Appointment

Don’t book with me if you can’t make it, or if you aren’t really sure. This is wasting not just your time, but mine as well. If you are a no show I will put you down as a timewaster and block you – no second chances. If you do book in advance and can’t make the appointment than I require 24 hour cancellation notice and a good excuse.


Will be discussed by phone


That means showered, teeth brushed, and feet and other potentially smelly areas odor free. I prefer all pubic hair be neatly trimmed or removed entirely.

What to Expect in Session

You will be required to pay up front. All payments will be in cash only and your tribute should be and on the table just inside the dungeon. No tribute, no session. On your first visit you will follow my instructions and the session will begin at my discretion while acting accordingly to my directions and strict demands.
Don’t be unrealistic because the session will not match your fantasies perfectly and I am not into line-by-line scripts. Instead be open and let me do my thing because you might find you enjoy the experience better than something that is scripted

What NOT to Expect in Session

I do not play with anyone under the age of 21./drug abuser/user

My Limits

I not participate in blood related actvities.
No Switch – Only true submissives need apply
Long bondage scenes will be done under some circumstances, but I will not do a session where I tie someone up and leave them alone for a long period as this is not safe.

List your Fetishes

Make a list of your likes/dislikes and fantasies. If you fantasize about a certain fetish frequently – usually you will enjoy it in a session. Categorize your list into things that (a) you know you like (b) are willing to try and (c) do not want to do. Don’t leave anything out because you’re embarrassed or scared. These mistakes will only keep you from realizing your true fantasies.  I will go over this with you in our pre-screening regardless.

Determine your Limits

Go back over your list. Estimate your threshold for each activity by comparing it to prior experiences with intense sensations that you found erotic (or past S/M scenes). Realistically evaluate whether you want light, medium or heavy play in each area of interest. Remember that each activity may be combined with additional sensory input during a session, which will multiply your perception. Novices should start with light play only; you can always increase the intensity and most importantly don’t say “you can do anything with me, Mistress” because I will use that opportunity to satisfy the most severe sadistic urges thinking that you are one of the rare few who can handle it.

What makes a good slave

Be clean, respectful and obedient. If you really want to make an impression, bring a little something such as a whip, blindfold or gift card – ( chanel perfume etc) bottle of wine (Chardonnay). Please Inquire for my private wish list.
Go over your likes/dislikes and make sure you have stated them clearly before the session starts. Speak up if I push you beyond your limits because I appreciate the input without being threatened. Don’t try to impress me by surpassing your limits. Understand that I may have another client waiting so don’t hang around prolonging and help clean up if I ask. Demonstrate your gratitude and tell me how great the session was and that you want to see me again.

Follow Up

Afterwards write down your impressions. First wait a few days to fully assess your reactions because sometimes you will find that some activities were unpleasant during the session were actually exciting afterwards as this is a common experience. If you wish to see me again, figure out the positive and negative elements of your session so that you can pass that information on to me the next time we meet.

Also, adjust your list of limits if you have learned more about your preference because I may ask you to write a testimonial.